Traumatic events such as crime can have a lasting impact on children, leading to psychological, behavioral, social, and even biological effects that can extend into adulthood. Law enforcement and caregivers need to have a delicate approach when explaining such events to children, providing them with the truth in a way that they can understand and offering reassurance that they are not alone. This approach is crucial in helping children cope with trauma and preventing long-term negative consequences such as adult criminality, substance abuse, and mental health issues.
The FBI stresses the importance of providing trauma notification to children in a private space, away from crowds of adults or older children, to prevent overwhelming the child. It is essential to consider the child’s age when delivering traumatic news as their level of understanding varies depending on their developmental stage. Being honest and open with children about death and traumatic events is crucial in helping them process and cope with their emotions. Being prepared for a variety of emotional responses and providing ongoing support and information to children is vital in helping them navigate through the grieving process.
It is crucial to maintain a soft tone and use age-appropriate language when speaking to children about traumatic events. Siblings should also be considered as they may share their feelings and experiences with one another. Following up with children after providing traumatic news is essential, as they may have questions and need ongoing support and reassurance. Limiting exposure to social media and news coverage can also help children process the information and prevent additional distress or confusion.
Real-life cases such as that of Harmony Montgomery, a young girl who went missing and was later found to have been murdered, highlight the importance of providing trauma notification to children in a sensitive and supportive manner. Caregivers and law enforcement personnel must be prepared to answer questions and provide ongoing support to help children cope with traumatic events. By following the guidelines outlined by the FBI and being prepared to address the emotional needs of children, caregivers and law enforcement can help mitigate the negative effects of childhood trauma and promote healing and resilience in children.
