On Election Day in 2016, the author received a text from her mother asking if she voted for Trump, despite the fact that she had actually voted for Joe Biden. The author reflects on the growing divide between her liberal views and her parents’ more traditional, Republican beliefs. While they are able to have discussions on political and social issues, they often find themselves debating their perceptions rather than the actual issues at hand. The author struggles with the conflicting narratives presented by their different sources of news and social media.
The author describes how their attempts to present their parents with facts and research to sway their views have been unsuccessful. During a recent visit, a conversation with their mother about Trump being the nominee highlighted the disconnect between their perspectives. The author finds themselves questioning their own beliefs and individuality after returning home, feeling as though they are sometimes representing the Republican point of view without realizing it. They are always on the defensive, anticipating attacks from the other side.
Despite the differences in political views, the author acknowledges the love and support their parents have provided throughout their life. However, when it comes to discussing political beliefs and attempts to influence their vote, there is a strain on their relationship. The author grapples with the fear of disappointing their parents by acknowledging their differences, but realizes that silence is not the brave choice. They are compelled to break their silence and stand up for what they believe in, particularly in the face of Trump’s presidency and everything it represents.
The author, a queer writer based in Brooklyn, reflects on the challenges of navigating political differences with her more conservative parents. She recognizes the need to speak out and advocate for her beliefs, even if it means risking conflict within her family. The author’s story highlights the complexities of family relationships in the context of polarized political views and the importance of standing up for one’s convictions. Despite the fear of causing rifts within the family, the author understands the importance of being true to themselves and their beliefs.
