The author of the content recounts her journey of adopting a baby and her decision to induce lactation in order to breastfeed her adopted son, Henry. After receiving The Call on New Year’s Day that a birth mom had chosen them, the author and her husband rushed to the hospital to pick him up. While initially skeptical about inducing lactation, she realized during Henry’s first week home that breastfeeding was a crucial part of how she mothered, bonded, and loved her children. Despite the challenges and physical discomfort associated with breastfeeding, the author found it to be one of the most gratifying experiences of motherhood.
In order to induce lactation, the author utilized a combination of prescription medication, teas, herbs, and pumping. Medications such as domperidone, typically used for nausea in cancer patients but known to induce lactation as a side effect, were prescribed by a women’s clinic and supported by Henry’s pediatrician. Along with herbal supplements like fenugreek and specially made “boob cookies” and teas, the author embarked on a rigorous pumping routine under the guidance of a lactation consultant. Despite initial struggles, she eventually began producing breast milk for Henry after about a month.
The author describes the intimate bond she formed with Henry through breastfeeding, emphasizing the importance of this connection despite its unconventional nature. While acknowledging that inducing lactation may be met with skepticism or confusion from some, the author reflects on the positive reactions she received from friends and family members. She recounts an interaction with an older family member who expressed genuine curiosity and interest in her induced lactation experience, highlighting the novelty and unfamiliarity of the concept to many people.
Through her personal journey of inducing lactation and breastfeeding her adopted son, the author challenges societal norms and expectations regarding motherhood and parenting choices. She acknowledges the judgments and criticisms that mothers often face for their decisions and expresses gratitude for trusting her maternal instincts and forging her own path. Ultimately, the author reflects on the deep bond she shares with Henry, recognizing that breastfeeding was just one of many ways they have connected and bonded over the years.
Now ten years old, Henry remains close to his mother and demonstrates signs of their strong bond through gestures of affection and connection. The author reflects on the estimated 900 hours spent breastfeeding during a baby’s first six months of life and the significant impact it has had on their relationship. Despite the initial doubts and challenges she faced while inducing lactation, the author affirms that the journey was perfect for them, leading to a deep and lasting connection with her adopted son. The author is a writer, mom via birth and adoption, and an adoptee, with her essays appearing in various publications.
